Before getting into K-pop as a black girl, I wish I knew that it was going to be frustrating sometimes.There are the people of your race that think you are weird for liking Asian music. They think you should listen to only hip hop and rap. But not the Korean kind, the kind like J.Cole and Young Thug. People shame your taste in music because it is not their preference or in English. If the music is good, why should I i care what language it is in? There are people in general that think because of this, you want to be Asian. That isn’t the case. I want to be black and embrace it. I love being black. In my case, I never even paid attention to South Korea before discovering K-pop. When I finally stumbled across Got 7, I feel like I discovered a whole new language and culture that I was never exposed to. (I hope this doesn’t sound disrespectful?) I became super interested in their pop culture and the Korean language and I wanted to learn it. Isn’t that normal? I wish I knew that some of my favorite celebs were problematic when it comes to touchy subjects such as blackface and culture appropriation. Its hard because I don’t know If i should still love them or drop them, even if it is normal Korean citizens. Non black k-pop fans telling us that we are being too dramatic or they excuse their faves’ actions because they are ignorant of other cultures and ethnicities that isn’t their own. Yes, this can be the case for a lot of koreans but a lot of them also know what they are doing when it comes to these things. It doesn’t affect non-black K-pop fans personally so they let it slide. This is the most frustrating part of it all. It hurts but I stick with it because its all about the music anyways.